A proverb meaning 'don't chase those who leave, don't refuse those who come' — adopt a laissez-faire attitude toward people coming and going (in relationships or organizations).
人事部長は『去る者は追わず、来たる者は拒まず』の方針で採用と退職を扱っている。
The HR manager handles hiring and resignations with the policy 'don't chase those who leave, don't refuse those who come.'
恋愛ではよく『去る者は追わず、来たる者は拒まず』という言葉を聞くが、必ずしも当てはまらない場合もある。
In love people often say 'don't chase those who leave, don't refuse those who come', but it doesn't always apply.