A proverb meaning that the way you say something matters; the same message can be received differently depending on phrasing.
同じことでも、物も言い様で相手を傷つけることがある。
Even the same thing can hurt someone depending on how you say it.
物も言い様だから、説明の仕方を工夫した方がいい。
Because phrasing matters, you should think about how to explain it.
物も言い様だと感じて、言い直した。
I felt my wording could be problematic, so I rephrased it.